Know Your Version- Are you black, white or grey?

    More often than not, we are bewildered about ourselves. The way we think about us is a ramification of other peoples perceptions. We tend to rationalize on the basis of what others think or simply as a result of incorrect self-identification. Personality is soul-deep and generalizing on the basis of few odd incidents could be catastrophic in the longer run. If you're vivacious and effervescent, you are an extrovert. To the contrary, if you are mild and quiet, you're an introvert. And if you are neither one of them, then you're a nobody. These are iconoclastic conventions, which no longer hold true. Human energy can be referred to in terms of level of extroversion, introversion and ambiversion.

Black Extroversion:- The connotation 'Black' is a symbolism of depth. It is depth of the unknown and imagination of a different World around themselves. 'People' are their biggest strengths. Just as the solar objects derive its energy from the sun, being around people is a source of energy for these people. So if an extrovert is the last man alive, he is most likely to die of desolation. Conversations are their food. They are blood-sucking vampires, who will drain your energies but are unlikely to feel effete. The weapon for dealing with these people are mega-extroverts, who are most likely to surpass their energy levels. They are great starters, who'll fill up your tummy leaving no room for more communication. They are so busy talking and entertaining , there is no full stop! Their biggest weakness indeed, confining themselves. Some self-discipline and self-control can be their sole life saviors from this state of being. Nevertheless, they are larger than life and soul of any gathering. World would be a Zombieland without these people. 

White Introversion:-White is White, self explanatory. The World is full of introverts in disguise who are often not shy, but refrain from engaging in unnecessary conversations. They are not bashful but highly selective about their word count, both quantitatively and qualitatively. Their recharge voucher is the least expensive of all i.e. revitalizing by being alone or with very few trusted people. Best part about it being independence from the constant dependence to make you happy. Infact, they are likely to be the most complacent about themselves and least likely to be depressed. Extroverts are improbable to enjoy with these people and deprecating towards them. Simply, because their is a dichotomy of energies. However, a perfect exemplification of 'Opposites Extract' as they strike the best balance as couples. Nevertheless, the smartest beings who listen and think more than talk incessantly, without any analytics. 

Grey Ambiversion:- Grey's are a paradox of life. For instance, Ms Grey has a huge set of friends who she likes to socialize with and is equally content doing nothing. They are drained of being around people too much and being alone too much. Whether reading a book alone or hanging out in the mall, the level of pleasure is the same. If they are put on the weighing scale with half an introvert and half an extrovert, it should balance nineteen-twenty. Non-ambi's find it the hardest to understand these people and keep at par with their balance. At one moment, you'll find these people to be chatterboxes and at the other lost in their own world. The source of energy for these people is balance in life, which is their biggest strength. 

 Now that you have identified these three distinct personality types, this is how you should deal with them:-

EXTROVERTS-

• Understand their need for plenty of social engagements and outings in their daily schedule.
• Try and engage into a lot of conversation with these people to know about what their World is all about. This is their need, so cater to it.
• Simple, let them be around lots of people.

INTROVERTS-

• Please give them lots of space to recycle themselves.
• Their daily schedules should not be very eventful.
• Respect their silence and do not pressurize them to talk when they want to be lost into their World of imagination.

AMBIVERTS-

• Balance, balance and some more balance. Allow them to rejuvenate via social engagements and also respect their private time when they need to restore.
• Accommodate with their needs and identify signals. Accept it when they need to return home after a wholesome time and when they are counting minutes to meet up with their friends.
• Variety is the spice of life- knowledge, party, interesting, couch, experiences, television and so on.

People are born with these personality types. Neither is their success a result of or failure a detriment of who they are, if at all, substance lies in what they do.Whether you're an extrovert, introvert or an ambivert, play along what you have. Make your strengths your USP and weaknesses into opportunities. Meanwhile, draw out the empathy card and vicariously experience the feelings, thoughts and attitudes of others. After all, the World is a potpourri of diverse people who neutralize the harmful radiations of A-Particular beings.

Live and let live.